WHAT COUPLES MUST KNOW ABOUT HEALTHY SEX LIFE IN MARRIAGE – Continuation from August Edition
MOUNTAIN TOP STAGE
The mountain top stage takes over from the engagement stage. The work done in the engagement state is to build up an intense and pleasant excitement.
But what is really needed at this stage is effective control and a skilful management of the build – up excitement so that it could culminate in a joint ejaculation or orgasm. The men have more to do here than the women.
The women are more vulnerable at this stage while the men have the greatest risk is losing control that could result in early ejaculation or accidental discharge; leaving their women half way up the mountain top. It is advisable that both of them should do the followings to help them to be fully in charge of this process.
- Both of them should take sometimes; as many times as necessary, to wipe or mob up themselves to reduce the level of slipperiness in their bodies which could blow their excitement out of shape or proportions and give them a rough landing.
- A reasonable amount of kissing and bodily stimulations is needed by the women to help them raise faster to orgasm since their responses are usually slower than that of the men. Men need a whole lot of patience at this point, over dose of love, appreciations and stimulations and encouragement of the spouse must be on and uninterrupted.
- Communications at this level must be uninterrupted, effective and very positive. All negative talks must be removed from this process.
- The stimulation of the clitoris is one of the major ways to successful orgasm in women. Therefore, a lot of the stimulations of the clitoris is needed by the husband. This has to be gentle and sometimes it is the woman that may have to decide the best may that gives her more excitement.
- Different sex positions may also help the couples to reach orgasm. There are some sex positions that may not allow the shaft of the man’s penis to produce adequate frictions on the clitoris of the woman. It is good to find out which sex position gives both the necessary frictions and excitement that could help both of them to reach orgasm together. There may be two or three positions before orgasm but the aim is for both of them to reach orgasm together.
- The woman must be very skilful and passionate, knowing that she has so much to do to help herself to achieve orgasm together with the husband. She has to be alive and expectant and not passive. Her mind must be very active and vagina determined together needed blessings from the penis of the husband.
- She must throw herself completely into the show and contribute meaningfully for the realization of their common goal which is orgasm. Her hands, mind and vagina must all agree that they will not let the man go until he blesses her. All of these things and many other creative, crazy and unexplainable things do happen on the mountain top of romantic ecstasy. That’s why orgasm has always remain the communion for the full members only, at this level of love making. It is for only the full members who can pay the price and make their own regular contributions in the school of love. For all others it may always remain a mirage. Let’s now move to the next level of consummation. For all others it may always remain a mirage. Let’s now move to the next level of consummation.
CONSUMMATION STAGE
As we come to this stage of romantic drama, you should be able to agree with me over the following outstanding points:
- Maturity, excitement and effective communications are the things that separates humans from Animals when it comes to love games.
- A good and experience love game will definitely take a good deal of time. All these 10 to 20 minutes of sex should belong to the animal’s kingdom.
- A qualitative and blissful sex would require a well-articulated training.
- Couples that agree to take the instructions in this manual can always get safely to this blissful heaven of sexual fulfillment.
Now let us discuss the issues that surround the consummation stage. At this point, the couples are close to orgasm and are determined to ejaculate together. It is still wonderful if the woman ejaculates first. But the goal of this assignment is for both of them to rise and fall together. The key thing in the consummation stage is the right timing of orgasm, since it has to affect both the man and the woman. The experience is difficult to put in words. It is like the explanation of one’s personal feelings. People react differently during orgasm. Some people remain firm, while some scatter, scream and turn wild because of the intense wave of pleasure that passes through their entire being. Some others do lose control of themselves and become so wild and a little bit violent because of their inexperience. A woman that is lead to orgasm feels so big and will respect the husband in a very special way. Similarly, a man that always leads the wife to orgasm is always confident and has a great sense of mastery and control.
Consummation stage is the time when the couples manage themselves and bring their built-up excitements into a joint ejaculation. Both release their seminal fluids together and retire respectively. I will try to describe this assignment the best way that I can:
Imagine that this couple were climbing a tall and slippery mountain together with a full basin of water. As they moved up talking and solving these problems of this slippery mountain together, the challenge is not only to reach the top of this mountain together but also to arrive safely with the basin full of this precious water. The couples are sex partner or husband and wife. The water is their sperm that is needed at the peak of this mountain while the slippery mountain is the critical love plays that must lead to orgasm. The mountain top is the ejaculation stage. Imagine that there is a sea on the other side of the mountain for them to fall into. As your mind runs through this incredible and wonderful love drama you can have a clearer picture of all that we are trying to learn in this article. Anything can happen along the way or process. One may slip off and the water or sperm is poured out.
At this point the other would helplessly watch the other partner fall, jerk and scream out leaving the other in pain, disappointment and bewilderment. But on the other hand, if both manage to the top of the mountain, both would hold the basin with some amount of water that is remaining and then chant a song of joy and congratulations and then dive together into the sea at the other side of the mountain. That is what is called joint ejaculation or orgasm. When both of them jump into the sea; they can allow the basin to go away while the husband holds the hand of the wife and both of them find their way to the shore and then sleep off. That is, it. But that is not the end.
RETIREMENT & SETTLEMENT STAGE
The stage that we are about to discuss is very simple but not very common. Retirement and settlement stage is the stage of ‘thank you’ and a lot of appreciations. This appreciation is very important to both parties. It makes them to feel important and appreciated but it is more important to women. This is because the excitement of the women goes down gradually and as weaker vessels, they need more comfort and petting to help them to wine down their gradual downward movement and then land safely from this mountain – top. While both breathe out their joy and success in this love game, they must find time to say thank you’ in some special ways. One of the ways to say thank you or appreciate each other is to simply embrace and fall on the neck of each other and sleep. The knowledge of this wonderful sexual experience was given by the Almighty God and should be enjoyed by Gods people to the very full.
